Weddings
We are delighted to host weddings and marriage blessings at All Saints, even during this time of interregnum (while we await a new minister). Your wedding day is a sacred and joyous occasion, and we are honoured to be part of your journey.
Who can get married at All Saints Church?
To be married at All Saints, Lydiard Millicent, you or your family will need to have a qualifying connection with the parish. As a couple, you can marry in a church outside your parish if either of you can show just one of seven recognised connections.
👉 For full details, please see: Finding a church for your wedding – The Church of England
How to begin
If you would like to explore getting married at All Saints, please contact:
Church Warden: John Halstead
📧 Email: lydiardmillicent2020@gmail.com 📞 Phone: 0796 225 4336
We recommend getting in touch at least 6 months before your wedding date so that everything can be arranged in good time.
Before your wedding
- You and your partner must give notice of marriage at your local Register Office.
- If you live in different areas, each of you must attend your own local office.
- Your banns of marriage will be read in church on three consecutive Sundays, at least 2 months before your wedding day.
- The Church Warden will arrange for a minister to conduct the service. Once a minister is booked, you will need to pay a £50 non-refundable deposit.
The minister will meet with you to:
- Have one or more marriage preparation sessions.
- Plan your wedding service – including readings, hymns, prayers, and any personal touches.
- Identify and agree costs
- Arrange a wedding rehearsal.
On the day
Essential
- Verger – A verger helps ensure your wedding runs smoothly, preparing the church, welcoming guests, and handling practical arrangements.
- Parking & Parish Hall – We recommend booking Lydiard Millicent Parish Hall (opposite the church) for guest parking. If the hall is unavailable, parking is at The Vicarage, The Butts, SN5 3LR. Please avoid blocking neighbours’ access.
- Organist: If the wedding is booked early enough, we can generally provide an organist.
Optional extras
- Flowers – Our flower arranging team may be able to provide wedding flowers. Costs depend on your request and are arranged directly with the team.
- Bell Ringing – Bells can be rung to celebrate your marriage if our ringers are available.
- Refreshments – If you book the Parish Hall, you may also use it for your reception.
- Capacity: around 100 guests
- Kitchen facilities on site
- For smaller gatherings (up to 30), light refreshments may be possible in the church.
- Photography & Video – You are welcome to record your wedding. Please ensure the photographer/videographer remains in one place during the service so as not to distract from worship.
Legal record
At the end of the service, you will both sign the wedding register. This register remains at All Saints Church as part of the parish’s permanent record.
Wedding Fees
Our Schedule of Wedding Fees shows the 2025 fees for the wedding itself (including publication of banns, the wedding service itself, and the marriage certificate), together with optional extras and the use of technology.
Additional Local Fees (These amounts are indicative)
- Parish Hall hire (for parking and/or reception): £60 – £100 (half day), £100 – £150 (full day)
- Flowers: Variable, typically £75 – £250 depending on arrangements